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12:43am
29/10/2015
Some of y'll have known me for a long time and I guess a handful of y'll have interpreted how I am as a person by being around me, by observing and coming to a conclusion without me having to tell you what a person I am. And that is great!
For some of y'll that don't know, I guess this is the post if you feel like you don't know much about me. You see, I believe in moderacy. That is moderacy in how we should treat people, moderacy in how we should showcase our affection, moderacy in basically everything in life. As such, I try to be nice to people. No matter how shitty they treat me or other people, I believe it it just an issue of upbringing.
Here's the thing. It doesn't take much to frustrate / annoy me. I can assure you that I would get frustrated / annoyed at something at least once in an hour. It could be something I see online or a person's incompetence or a failure of a task. But here's the thing, I've learnt so much from my people observing days that I wouldn't let that get the better of me. And most of the time, I would take a moment to meditate, just to clear my mind and tackle the issue head-on. Chances are, the people would be solved.
Clarification; I'm not saying I'm unwilling to help. I'm merely saying at least try to solve it before going about asking for help. I'll help if you're in a desperate spot and it's within my powers to do so.
Whilst it takes very little to frustrate me, it takes a lot for me to be genuinely angry and a whole lot more for me to lash out. I'm only going to mention about the former because I hadn't lashed out in quite some time now so it's essentially irrelevant in this context. Like I said before, whenever I'm frustrated, I would try to take a minute to breathe and let bygones be bygones. But if I still can't do that because it's not the first time this has happened or that the problem escalated because of what you did, or the degree of your incompetence is just unbearable then I'd suggest, just get away.
I have this problem though. When I get angry, more often than not, you wouldn't realized because I would just keep it in or lash out on Twitter or write a post that's never going to go up. Oh and I'm sure you guys know by now that I'm an INFJ. Being an INFJ, trust means a ton to us, to me. And if you were to break that trust by anyway whatsoever, I'm sorry (not) but you're better off leaving the relationship stay dead or prepare to get a dust from the stars to amend the problem.
Here's the thing though, I think so much of other people that I let them take advantage of me. No one's a kid if you're friends with me (my dislike of kids), and you have the glory of Google on the palms of your hands, what's wrong with looking up for some info before asking for help? What's wrong with doing some actual research yourself beforehand? I'm just helping y'll out here. If you guys keep relying on others now, you're going to suffer in your workplace because no one's going to help you out there.
Today we had to attend a talk concerning the issues of crisis communications. And one of the negative ways to react to a issue is to be defensive and/or to give excuses. I understand that you've made a mistake, fine, at least man up and admit that you were in the wrong. Don't give some petty excuses. And don't be a hypocrite. A hypocritical, excuse making, person who runs from responsibility isn''t going to get anywhere in life other than the dirt you're stepping on.
Here's an advice to everyone who's bitter about the world. I was one of y'll before. I used to think that the world's an incredibly shitty place and I deserve better and that everyone I meet is an asshole. Then I realized something. If it happens once, it's probably them. If it happens all the time, it's probably you. So I changed my mindset. I changed myself and I'm feeling much better now than ever. And it pains me to see people who's mindset are still stuck on a 5 yos. Grow up, the world doesn't revolve around you. You revolve around the world.
If you manage to get me to feel more enraged and pathetic at you more than I feel so for myself, then you've done fuck all to ruin it. If you're only going to come when you're feeling shitty and not when you're happy, change. If you're going to leave without a word of gratitude, learn. If you're going to be a selfish prick who uses people to advance their needs without having a second thought of it, then...
1:15am
29/10/2015
29/10/2015
Some of y'll have known me for a long time and I guess a handful of y'll have interpreted how I am as a person by being around me, by observing and coming to a conclusion without me having to tell you what a person I am. And that is great!
For some of y'll that don't know, I guess this is the post if you feel like you don't know much about me. You see, I believe in moderacy. That is moderacy in how we should treat people, moderacy in how we should showcase our affection, moderacy in basically everything in life. As such, I try to be nice to people. No matter how shitty they treat me or other people, I believe it it just an issue of upbringing.
Here's the thing. It doesn't take much to frustrate / annoy me. I can assure you that I would get frustrated / annoyed at something at least once in an hour. It could be something I see online or a person's incompetence or a failure of a task. But here's the thing, I've learnt so much from my people observing days that I wouldn't let that get the better of me. And most of the time, I would take a moment to meditate, just to clear my mind and tackle the issue head-on. Chances are, the people would be solved.
Clarification; I'm not saying I'm unwilling to help. I'm merely saying at least try to solve it before going about asking for help. I'll help if you're in a desperate spot and it's within my powers to do so.
Whilst it takes very little to frustrate me, it takes a lot for me to be genuinely angry and a whole lot more for me to lash out. I'm only going to mention about the former because I hadn't lashed out in quite some time now so it's essentially irrelevant in this context. Like I said before, whenever I'm frustrated, I would try to take a minute to breathe and let bygones be bygones. But if I still can't do that because it's not the first time this has happened or that the problem escalated because of what you did, or the degree of your incompetence is just unbearable then I'd suggest, just get away.
I have this problem though. When I get angry, more often than not, you wouldn't realized because I would just keep it in or lash out on Twitter or write a post that's never going to go up. Oh and I'm sure you guys know by now that I'm an INFJ. Being an INFJ, trust means a ton to us, to me. And if you were to break that trust by anyway whatsoever, I'm sorry (not) but you're better off leaving the relationship stay dead or prepare to get a dust from the stars to amend the problem.
Here's the thing though, I think so much of other people that I let them take advantage of me. No one's a kid if you're friends with me (my dislike of kids), and you have the glory of Google on the palms of your hands, what's wrong with looking up for some info before asking for help? What's wrong with doing some actual research yourself beforehand? I'm just helping y'll out here. If you guys keep relying on others now, you're going to suffer in your workplace because no one's going to help you out there.
Today we had to attend a talk concerning the issues of crisis communications. And one of the negative ways to react to a issue is to be defensive and/or to give excuses. I understand that you've made a mistake, fine, at least man up and admit that you were in the wrong. Don't give some petty excuses. And don't be a hypocrite. A hypocritical, excuse making, person who runs from responsibility isn''t going to get anywhere in life other than the dirt you're stepping on.
Here's an advice to everyone who's bitter about the world. I was one of y'll before. I used to think that the world's an incredibly shitty place and I deserve better and that everyone I meet is an asshole. Then I realized something. If it happens once, it's probably them. If it happens all the time, it's probably you. So I changed my mindset. I changed myself and I'm feeling much better now than ever. And it pains me to see people who's mindset are still stuck on a 5 yos. Grow up, the world doesn't revolve around you. You revolve around the world.
If you manage to get me to feel more enraged and pathetic at you more than I feel so for myself, then you've done fuck all to ruin it. If you're only going to come when you're feeling shitty and not when you're happy, change. If you're going to leave without a word of gratitude, learn. If you're going to be a selfish prick who uses people to advance their needs without having a second thought of it, then...
1:15am
29/10/2015
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